There is a right way and a wrong way to go about asking for recommendations. If I have provided a service for you and you are happy with my work, I may ask you for a recommendation. I may also go as far as giving you some talking points such as speaking to my expertise, the timeliness of my work, and my communication style while working with you.
Many people are too busy to compose the recommendation. They may ask you to write it for them, then forward to you for your approval so they can then recommend on your profile. It is not a given that someone will give you a recommendation, don’t take it personal! They could be too busy or simply not able to get back to you. Just ask someone! It’s perfectly fine to ask coworkers or previous employers. If by chance, you receive a recommendation that you are not happy with; you have a two choices. Ask them to edit the recommendation or choose not to show it on your profile.
Also, be careful if you have exchanged services. Not that you can’t endorse each other but most of your recommendations should come from your clients, co-workers or previous managers.
I would not consider asking someone to recommend me who doesn’t have first-hand knowledge of my service. I also list my personal philosophy in my “Advice for Contacting (Your Name) section.
If you have provided a service for me and I was happy with the result; I would be more than happy to recommend you. If I worked with you in the past, I may speak to your expertise while working with you. If I was employed by you and it ended amicably, I would be happy to recommend you. However, I DO NOT recommend someone I don’t know.
Happiness and Success,