There are plenty of ways you can accomplish this task, actions speak louder than words. Some examples with no monetary contribution include: letting someone in front of you in the grocery store line, smiling at someone whether you receive a smile back or not, giving up your seat on the bus or subway for someone who needs it more, asking a physically challenged person if they need help, giving up that closer parking space if you can use the exercise, reading to child or sitting with an elderly person and just listening.
Here is my personal favorite: Having had a rare autoimmune disease 6 years ago which required me to use a walker, I simply can’t tell you how often the door was slammed in my face. It only takes a few seconds to look behind you and hold that door for someone else. Needless to say, that is now a no-brainer for me!
With little money to spare, I love paying someone’s toll on the bridge or expressway, provided there is someone in that booth, LOL! Ok, I am sometimes a sucker for the homeless person on the off ramp. More important to me than that dollar bill is offering them a protein bar from the box I keep in my car. Do they appreciate food instead of money, maybe or maybe not? It’s the thought that counts. I often see the guy selling newspapers on the side of the road and offer him a dollar for the next person who asks to buy a paper.
My favorites which do involve some money 😉 . I love paying someone’s tab in the car behind me at Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts. Of course, I always ask the cashier their total- buying lattes for the entire office- not so willing! In the line at the movie, I might see a child between me and tell the cashier I would like to purchase their ticket. Whether the family needs it or not, it costs a lot these days to take your family to the movies.
Kindness can be expressed in many ways. What are some of your favorites?
1. You are currently a college student: If you start working on your LinkedIn presence prior to graduation; you stand a better chance of finding a job when you DO graduate. It takes time to make the proper connections, so the sooner you can build your brand- the better. LinkedIn is more highly regarded than Facebook because it is strictly a business social networking site. It’s where your future employers are seeking candidates. If an employer Googles you, you will stand out in the crowd if your profile is well constructed.
2. You are a job seeker: Recruiters and hiring managers are constantly searching for new employees on LinkedIn. You want to be found and noticed by them! An All-Star profile is full of your accomplishments and should let a company know why they should hire you? And what you can do for their company?
3. You have a job but you might want a better one: You are already successful and very attractive to other employers. If you have a rocking profile, you will definitely be found via a search and just might be contacted by hiring personnel. You may love your job but the next one might be your dream job!
4. You are a small business owners who would like more clients: Know your find-ability factor, what service do you offer that no one else does? I believe that LinkedIn is fast becoming the new search engine. People are searching on LinkedIn to do business with you. Create your headline to attract new customers. Have recommendations on your profile; there is no better way to advertise than the words of your current or past clients.
5. You are a recruiter or in HR: Your employees are on LinkedIn! Knowing how to search for the right candidates is crucial. Have a clear focus about who your target candidates are, so they can find you as well. Sometimes your candidates will come from your other connections. Keep in touch with your clients who you have worked with in the past.
The bottom line: It’s all about the relationships that you build on LinkedIn. Be assertive, be honest and always be professional.
Happiness and Success Always~ Sherry
There is a right way and a wrong way to go about asking for recommendations. If I have provided a service for you and you are happy with my work, I may ask you for a recommendation. I may also go as far as giving you some talking points such as speaking to my expertise, the timeliness of my work, and my communication style while working with you.
Many people are too busy to compose the recommendation. They may ask you to write it for them, then forward to you for your approval so they can then recommend on your profile. It is not a given that someone will give you a recommendation, don’t take it personal! They could be too busy or simply not able to get back to you. Just ask someone! It’s perfectly fine to ask coworkers or previous employers. If by chance, you receive a recommendation that you are not happy with; you have a two choices. Ask them to edit the recommendation or choose not to show it on your profile.
Also, be careful if you have exchanged services. Not that you can’t endorse each other but most of your recommendations should come from your clients, co-workers or previous managers.
I would not consider asking someone to recommend me who doesn’t have first-hand knowledge of my service. I also list my personal philosophy in my “Advice for Contacting (Your Name) section.
If you have provided a service for me and I was happy with the result; I would be more than happy to recommend you. If I worked with you in the past, I may speak to your expertise while working with you. If I was employed by you and it ended amicably, I would be happy to recommend you. However, I DO NOT recommend someone I don’t know.
Happiness and Success,
- Don’t use the default connection statement, “I’d like to add you to my professional network.” or my personal favorite, “Since you are a person I trust, I wanted to invite you to join my network on LinkedIn.” You don’t know me well enough to trust me. Personalizing your statement to connect is vital to building a relationship. Tell me why you want to connect and/or how we know each other.
- Don’t ask me to send out a message from you to my network. Especially, if I don’t know you or you connected with me a day ago. It’s NOT happening! I would never send a mass email (at least not for any reason I can think of) to my connections from me, let alone from you. I love to be complimented like everyone else, but flattery doesn’t work in this regard.
- Don’t try to sell me! Or ask me to visit your website or like your Facebook or Twitter pages! It screams buy my stuff and no one likes to be sold to. Offer your help or support. Be sincere when trying to help someone, say what you mean and do what you say. Don’t make false promises, it may hurt your online reputation.
- Don’t send out a mass email, it rarely works! “It says, I don’t have the time to connect with you personally, so I will just see if some of you bite!” Maybe if LinkedIn decides to have a BCC option in the future, it might feasible but no rumors about that coming anytime soon. In the meantime, use Constant Contact, Mail Chimp, Etc. to email your contactsJ
- Don’t steal someone else’s thunder. I just saw this a few days ago for the first time and couldn’t believe my eyes. You know the headline in the new contact app that shows you when someone has a new job or birthday or moved. Well, this gentleman had a new job and some congrats posted and one of the posts was actually a sales pitch from someone saying, “Congrats and BTW stop by my business XYZ for 10% off”! I wanted to respond, “Hello, this is not about you!!”
1. Don’t send a message without a personalized greeting! It can hurt you more than you know. Take the time to view someone’s profile to learn more about them. Sometimes I have noticed that LinkedIn prevents you from sending a personalized greeting; maybe when inviting some people in a group. If the default greeting is sent, you can always follow it up with a simple statement about why you want to connect with them.
LinkedIn now gives you the ability to see what you have in common with that person. On the right side panel about half way down, when you hover over the circles- you see what you have in common. It could be skills and expertise, it could be groups, and it could be your education or the connections you share. This gives you a great starting point for the conversation.
Lastly, LinkedIn has now put more emphasis on your relationships. Keywords are still important but relationships are starting to mean more in terms of targeted searches. Therefore, strategically connect with folks, it’s no longer just a numbers game.
2. Don’t use capital letters in your messages! It comes across to the other person that you are yelling. Yes, there is no way to bold phrases or use italics but there are other ways to explain yourself with words. Online communication can be difficult but unfortunately, I doubt that it will change in the near future. I am sure I have been guilty of this myself in the past. However, you can try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes. At times, I may add a comment saying, “I hope I was not too blunt or too honest?”
3. Last but not least, tell don’t sell! No one likes to be sold to! At least once or twice a day, I have someone who either writes “Buy My Stuff” (indirectly of course) in their invitation or directly after connecting with me they send me a message about their business or their paid event.
Building relationships first is paramount to your success! It’s a proven fact, people do business with people they know, like and trust. Remember, it’s not about you; it’s about them. Helping others with no agenda, will develop those lasting relationships. Which in turn, become referrals sources and they may even recommend you!
Happy and Success Always~Sherry
LinkedIn is a business networking site. If you are trying to connect with other professionals and want them to connect with you; a welcoming smiling photo is the first thing they see. It should be the number one item on your to-do list for optimizing your LinkedIn profile. Think of it like this: If you are a business owner and want clients to connect with you; they want to see what they are buying. YOU are YOUR brand!
How to control what others see:
1. Hover over your photo on your tool bar, click on Privacy and Settings.
2. Once in Settings (at the bottom right of the page), click on the 5th line which says Edit your public profile.
3. This will take you to your Public Profile– to the right of your profile you will see the sections that are visible to everyone. If there is something, you don’t want displayed-you can un-check the box.
4. I personally don’t recommend hiding anything, especially if you are using LinkedIn for networking or finding a job. Google does a good job of picking up things on your profile which can benefit you when someone is looking to hire you or offer you a job!
5. Hiding your photo is never a good idea. People like to connect with someone they can put a face to 🙂
6. Be sure to Save Changes at the bottom of the page.
7. To see how your profile looks after the changes, click on View My Public Profile as others see it.
As always, wishing you happiness and success!
Recently, I was looking for a pet sitter. I knew her first name and part of her company name. So I searched for her on LinkedIn and there she was. I’m not sure Google, etc. would have found her as quickly. Plus when I was in her profile, I looked at her recommendations; another thing that I wouldn’t have found easily on the current search engines. I know I could have gone to her website but LinkedIn was simply, quicker and gave me more information.
LinkedIn reached its 10th year anniversary and a lot has changed over the years. Ok, so things aren’t always perfect. Finally, everyone has the ability to add a link or upload a file, the new toolbar and especially the new LinkedIn contacts app; putting everyone on a level playing field. They are making changes sometimes daily but they are definitely doing something right!
People are finding jobs on LinkedIn. People are getting business on LinkedIn. It has replaced pet tales, photos of what someone else is eating, and nights out on the town details on Facebook.
The best place to start on LinkedIn is to listen to what others are saying and reach out to help them. Helping others is what the big social media players know and do well.
Happiness and Success Always 😉
Whether you have the new LinkedIn format or the old LinkedIn toolbar, you have the envelope and the flag! Both should be near your name with the old bar or to the left of your photo with the new version.
Let’s talk about the Envelope first:
This is the place where your current invitations and messages reside. By clicking on the envelope your invitations appear first and your messages below them. I typically make it a practice to look at the person’s profile before accepting the invitation to connect. If you decide you want to connect with someone; you can send a message thanking them for reaching out to you to connect. I know I discussed how important your photo can be, here is another example of why it is important. People want to see who they are connecting with. In this crazy world of spam, it’s important to know just who your connections are. Remember when connecting with others don’t sell, it’s a turn off! As for the messages you receive, you can decide if you want to reply or not. Some people will blanket their entire network with a message about an event or try to sell you something.
As for the Flag: